Individual session
Give yourself time for yourself: to arrive, let go, perceive, and explore your being as a man and as a human being.
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in your presence
A protected space exclusively for men, where holistic touch is at the center.
touched to be stands for tantra-oriented individual sessions and training with a high professional standard.
Honoring your masculinity
As a man, you have the ability to feel deeply – often more strongly than you may be aware of yourself. This sensitivity runs through your entire being.
Perhaps it is only a subtle need you sense: to be accepted as a human being and as a man, to allow yourself to be touched, to let go, and to show your vulnerability – giving space to your true nature.
You have every right to move closer to yourself, to be treated with respect and affirmed in your being as a man.
Stereotypes about masculinity are widespread and restrictive. In my work, you leave roles behind and experience touch within a protected and respectful setting.
I work exclusively with men – regardless of sexual orientation or identity. From personal experience, I know how liberating it can be to be seen and supported by another man in one’s sensitivity and vitality.
Closeness and touch are essential. They cannot be replaced.
Welcome to touched to be
For a few hours, you may let your mind rest and immerse yourself in your bodily presence. My experience in body and soul work supports you in finding calm, sensing, and restoring strength.
Deep relaxation and awake presence are sources of masculine authenticity. Feel alive and at home within yourself – that is what touched to be stands for. Experience your masculinity as a resource and a source of strength.
Who you meet
Hello, my name is Michael Köllner, a passionate bodyworker and space holder. For me, touch is a way of communicating with you – beyond roles, expectations, and demands for perfection. In my work, I combine the art of touch with a deep appreciation for your individual story.
You are welcome to show yourself as you are. With whatever is present right now: longing, insecurity, desire, exhaustion, curiosity. We enter a shared path and explore what wishes to emerge.
Within transparency and clearly defined boundaries, our work will bring you closer to yourself rather than overwhelm you. You set the pace – I hold the space for whatever may unfold within it.
A clear and grounded approach
Tantra-oriented bodywork can only function with binding rules and mutual respect. The protection of our boundaries and your pace take precedence over any concept.
The working language remains free from embellishment or exaggeration. Ritual is freed from absolute truths, gurus, mysticism, myth, and the appropriation of fragmented cultural elements. This is not about selling a single truth, but about taking you seriously in your perception, vulnerability, and strength. That requires clarity.
I do not offer prostitution. Sexuality and desire may be present in the experience without becoming a goal or an obligation. Our sessions remain professional, respectful, and free from hidden expectations.
Offer
Gift voucher
A session as a gift for men who wish for time devoted to embodiment, calm, and touch – without obligation.
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Professional, practice-oriented, non-esoteric training to become a wellness tantra massage practitioner.
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I came with expectations and wanted a tantric massage that would satisfy me. What I received were hours of letting go. With you, I was able to feel what my longing for connection can be like, freed from old conditioning.
— Armin
After the end of a relationship, I had lost my desire for touch. The massage with you was touching in the best sense and helped me become soft again. I felt very comfortable and accepted. You were present throughout and attentive to my reactions and needs.
— Thorsten
The word “massage” does not do this experience justice. I felt honest, intimate, and deeply connected, without it ever becoming uncomfortable or intrusive. I was able to surrender and enjoy with all my senses. And besides that, you are an incredibly sympathetic person – even sharing a glass of water together felt special.
— Jonas
Questions & orientation
Framework
What a session is – and what it is not. A clear, transparent framework instead of unspoken expectations.
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Structured answers to frequently asked questions about tantric massage.
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What the training is about – and what it is not. Professional, reflective preparation instead of promises of healing.
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If what you have read here resonates with you, there is nothing you need to decide yet. You can begin with a short message – with a question, a concern, or a feeling that is present right now.
Together, we will explore whether and in what form a collaboration feels right for you.
Would you like more orientation regarding framework, boundaries, and process? In the FAQ section you will find many answers. And if anything remains unclear, you are always welcome to write to me personally via the contact form.