Note: this page mentions potentially distressing topics such as experiences of violence, boundaries and trauma. If this affects you right now, please seek support. At the end of the page you will find information and helplines.



Tantra Massage for Special People

Mindful bodywork for men with a sensitive life story

My path has been shaped by self-reflection, therapeutic work and the ongoing effort to understand what forms us as human beings. Over the years, this has grown into the ability to accompany others on their own path. My experiences — and working them through — are part of what enables me to work today with clarity, calm and presence. They are integrated — but they do not define me.


From this, a stance has emerged that is grounded in protection, reliability and humanity. Men who come to me find a space where nothing is expected. Here, closeness and trust can arise slowly and naturally. My work invites you to experience your body again as a dependable place.



Feeling safe in your own body again

Many men carry experiences that are rarely spoken about — traces of injury and alienation, physical, emotional or mental. Trust is often shaken and the body has become an uncertain place. These imprints act deeply and for a long time. I know these dynamics from my own experience as someone who has lived through violence and learned to feel ground under my feet again. Everyone has their own measure of vulnerability — and from it often grow particular strength, depth and sensitivity.


From crisis, a new awareness of oneself and others can emerge. My task is to open spaces where men can meet themselves again with dignity. Touch can awaken a memory: not of what happened, but of what has remained intact at the core.



A new way forward

Surviving itself is an expression of strength. Even if scars remain: they do not speak of failure, but of how you kept going. Every step that brings you closer to yourself is part of a powerful path. Sometimes it begins by meeting someone who understands you and touches you within a safe frame, without wanting anything. Unintentional touch can release what words often do not reach.


There are parts that have not been entirely damaged by difficult experiences. Feeling this intactness again takes time and courage. It is not about forgetting the past, but about being able to experience yourself today as a whole person. If you are reading this page, you have already begun that step.


My body-based work offers a place where what is present in you is welcomed. Out of this, you may experience that touch can be something good again — free of intention, manipulation or instrumentalisation. And that, step by step, you can rebuild trust in yourself.



Information & helplines

This page addresses topics related to experiences of violence, boundaries and trauma. If this weighs on you or triggers memories, please do not deal with it alone. There are people and services offering confidential and respectful support.


  • Telephone counselling (Germany): 0800 111 0 111 / 0800 111 0 222 — free, anonymous, 24/7


  • Men’s helpline (Germany): 0800 123 9900 — counselling for men in crisis and after experiencing violence


  • Ruf und Rat / MEnTOO (Stuttgart/BW): 0711 226 20 55 — counselling for men who have experienced sexualised violence


  • Help hotline “Sexual abuse” (DE): 0800 22 55 530 — anonymous, free, daily


  • Tauwetter e.V. (Berlin): tauwetter.de — self-help and counselling by and for men who experienced sexualised violence as boys


  • Weißer Ring: weisser-ring.de — support for victims of crime and violence


  • Switzerland: opferhilfe-schweiz.ch — regional victim support centres


  • Austria: opfernotruf.at — victim helpline 0800 112 112 — 24/7


If you feel acutely distressed, please reach out — by phone, online or in person. Seeking help is not a sign of weakness; it is taking responsibility for yourself.

Frequently asked questions about tantra massage in Freiburg

Can a tantra massage heal past injuries?

It can set a healing process in motion. As I do not work medically or psychotherapeutically, I cannot promise healing. The massage is wellness-oriented.

How do we deal with triggers during a session?

We agree on clear stop signals in advance. Breaks and conversation are possible at any time. I can adjust pace, touch and sequence. Grounding exercises and position changes can help; you may end the session at any time.

Do I have to talk about my experiences?

No. You share only what you wish. In our intake we clarify wishes, taboos and boundaries. I am aware of my responsibility, and everything remains confidential.

What if I sense a boundary or want to stop?

You can say stop at any time, verbally or with a gesture — it always applies immediately. I will adapt the massage or we will end it if that is best. We can talk afterwards if you like.

More questions? The FAQs cover many aspects of wellness-oriented tantra massage at touched to be in Freiburg. Or feel free to contact me directly.